What benefits can you get in FRATERNITIES

They said that you can get nothing from a fraternity but only different kinds of torturing. On my side of point of view you can benefit more to them than a fraternity gaining from you. Why? because before you came to that society of brotherhood they are very well established and connected people of the society. But you to them is nothing unless you have proven out your self. Connections in life makes you become a develop person. 0n what aspect you may asked. Its when your problem can be easily be handle by contacting your brothers in fraternity. They can provide their humble assistance, time money and effort. I once called for this kind of matter and extend some assistance to them contacting people who came help my fellow brothers in principle.Some complexity really occur in brotherhood but it only takes effort to achieve the goal in joining the fraternity